Going with the Ebbs and Flows!

Time flies and things change!

on October 24, 2013

My life has changed, but at the core of it all I’m still me. I’m learning to navigate the world as a divorcee and a single mom now. Never in a million years did I foresee that this was they way life was going to be for me but you know what my life is NOT over!

I was fortunate to have been married for almost 10 years. I say fortunate because if I regretthose 10 years then I deny the things that have made me who I am today and the things that I have come to value. I had planned to be married forever but I have now come to realize that my definition of forever and his definition of forever was off by about 50 or so years. It has taken me a while but I’ve come to realize that it’s okay to not be married I mean millions of women around the world have been doing it for years so why can’t I?

I do however have some concerns I can’t lie. I have the typical can I afford to keep the house on my own, can I pay all the bills, and will I be able to provide for my little one by myself (those are my mom concerns). But I also so have the I’m single now am I going to find someone else to fall in love with and spend the rest of my life with or am I going to die alone concerns. (cough cough did I say that out loud). Entering the dating scene, a scene I wasn’t in long in the first place is daunting yet there is that element of excitement lurking in the the back of my mind.

I guess this is where I say only time will tell.


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